marriage and wls?

Citizen Kim
on 4/6/16 7:33 am, edited 4/6/16 12:34 am - Castle Rock, CO

Where the **** did I say that? No, it was a fantastic marriage, that's why it ended

Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist

chulbert
on 4/6/16 8:44 am - Rochester, NY

RNY on 01/21/13

I just don't think the duration of a marriage is the defining characteristic of its success. And I wouldn't tell anyone their marriage was a failure because it ended.

Citizen Kim
on 4/6/16 9:15 am, edited 4/6/16 2:16 am - Castle Rock, CO

RNY on 07/27/04

I'm still failing to see where I defined the duration of a marriage as a measure of its success. Or where I told ANYBODY their marriage was a failure because it ended. I'll wait

If you want to pick apart my posts, at least make sense or include something relative to what I actually said and not what you wanted me to have said!

Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist

chulbert
on 4/6/16 9:17 am - Rochester, NY

RNY on 01/21/13

You said, "A good marriage will be fine..."

Therefore if the marriage is not fine, that is to say it ends, it is not good.

Citizen Kim
on 4/6/16 9:20 am - Castle Rock, CO

RNY on 07/27/04

You are kidding, right? You got all that hidden meaning from one innocuous phrase. You really don't like me, do you

Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist

chulbert
on 4/6/16 9:25 am - Rochester, NY

RNY on 01/21/13

You can't mean one without meaning the other. If you misspoke then I retract my original comment about it making me uncomfortable.

Citizen Kim
on 4/6/16 11:07 am, edited 4/6/16 4:19 am - Castle Rock, CO

RNY on 07/27/04

How very passive aggressive of you ... and for you to decide what I mean BEHIND what I say?????

And if I ever get control of your feelings, I'll make sure and be gentle with them

Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist

Sparklekitty, Science-Loving Derby Hag
on 4/6/16 9:49 am

RNY on 08/05/19

Plenty of people in less-than-perfect, or even less-than-acceptable, marriages are still married. You're assuming that Kim is speaking in absolutes and making leaps that aren't there.

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