you are going to do wonderful Steve.I know..I just had this operation 6 days ago..I was a nervous wreck.. my husband watching me as the nurses lead me to the back tried to hold back his tears.. I was anxious and nervous,,BUT GUESS WHAT..It was so simple that I kind of laugh at the way I made such a big deal about it..LOL YOU'RE gonna do great.. Good luck to you.. and let Debbie Know that everythings gonna be fine.. I can feel the love between the two of you and that's so special..She loves you, Steve..You have a wonderful wife .Both of you take care and god bless..