Kassie,
Please try not to let your insurance company get you down. Keep fighting the good fight! This website may help you in your journey (www.obesitylaw.com)! Try to think of the financial end of the sugery this way, Gastric Bypass costs on average between 30 and 40 thousand which is about the cost of a nice SUV, and you are worth more than a nice SUV and then some I'm sure. I'm also sure that your husband would agree. So discuss it with him in that way. It may take a while to pay off, but your life and your health and happiness should not be determined by a price tag.
Good Health and God Bless
Mary (a posty)