How long did it take you

Cyndylw
on 2/16/12 9:47 am - Ottawa, Canada
 Hey everyone!

 I know I;m not alone in this, I know I've lost a lot of weight (140lbs to be exact) but sometimes I just don't see it... Everyone tells me how great I look, but in the mirror sometimes it's just impossible for me to see, all I see is the rolls and stuff

So I wanna know how long did it take you to see and know how much better you look? and truly believe it??
 
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twins4meplus1
on 2/16/12 10:32 am - St Thomas, Canada
I know, for me, it took a long time for my head to catch up to my body. I would even go into a store and buy clothes, take them home and everything would be too big.
This happens to a lot of us so just relax because one day you will look in the mirror and see your thinner self.

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Monica M.
on 2/16/12 11:00 am - Penetanguishene, Canada
i buy the right size clothes, i see the differences, but i still see all my flaws. how big my stomach is, in comparison to the rest of me, i still hate looking at my stomach when i'm naked, and i hate the way it looks in jeans.

that being said, i see what a long way i've come already, and i know i've done very well. I truly believe it, i just am painfully aware of my flaws.
        
Manda M.
on 2/16/12 11:52 am
I feel the exact same way... I get that I lost the weight but my head is soo broken
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Monica M.
on 2/16/12 8:41 pm - Penetanguishene, Canada
do you believe it when people say you look amazing, or does that little voice in your head say "yeah, in comparison to what i was before, maybe, but i still look awful, in comparison to 'normal' people"

        
Manda M.
on 2/17/12 12:20 am
It's that damn little voice! She is just mean! I do understand I look better.. then I used to. But I have the proof in the pictures. I sometimes stare at my side my sides to help it sink in.
http://pouchgirlrny.blogspot.com  -- My thoughts and experience so far post RNY!!
      
Monica M.
on 2/18/12 9:27 am - Penetanguishene, Canada
she is mean. I'm trying not to listen to her... i try to speak to myself the way my friends would speak to me, and when i can do that, i feel pretty awesome about myself.
        
Manda M.
on 2/18/12 9:31 am
 I will fight her for you!! No one messes with George and I's woman!
http://pouchgirlrny.blogspot.com  -- My thoughts and experience so far post RNY!!
      
Monica M.
on 2/18/12 9:34 am - Penetanguishene, Canada
that's right, *****es!!!!!
        
Manda M.
on 2/18/12 9:36 am
 Btw I can't wait to update our George pic! Thursday, April 26th! You and I are there!!
http://pouchgirlrny.blogspot.com  -- My thoughts and experience so far post RNY!!
      
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