Am I "fixed"? NO
This weekend, my husband found a memory card from one of our cameras, and put it into the computer. There were hundreds of photos, and some videos. One video in particular was from my youngest daughter's 6th birthday party, which was 2 months prior to my surgery. I don't think I knew I was being filmed, or I would have dodged the camera. Oh my goodness - what a dose of reality I got! I knew I was large, but seeing myself that way was quite an eye opener. I got a bit upset about how awful I looked. My husband's comment was that I fixed the problem. However, I didn't "fix" anything. At almost 18 months out, I still need to work hard every day at maintaining the weight loss. I need to eat a certain way, choose not to eat certain foods, and key into what's going on in my head, when all I want to do is eat. I don't see those things changing, ever. I can't think of myself as "fixed" or I will get "broken" again!
AMEN! Obesity is a disease, much like alcoholism......it's with us for life.
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You are so right! I have to remember that I am an addict, who is in remission, not cured. I'm okay with that reality as I am so much happier and comfortable in my skin now. But I know I have to work at it every day and not let my guard down, or the disease will come back, stronger than ever!
This is perfectly-said. Thank you!
It is very nice to read a post such as yours. What you write is the absolute truth. It is work - every day - to make sure that we maintain our weight loss. It is a new way of living for many of us and seems hard, but I am told that it does get easier.
My father has never been overweight (okay a few pounds here or there, but overall a very fit old man!) and at 83 still works at maintaining his weight. It's just that for him it is second nature. For me, not so much yet. I still have to "work" at it!
Thanks for such a great, honest post!
It's funny, in my OA days, the thought of 'for the rest of my life' was overwhelming and scary. Now, it gives me a sense of hope and freedom. As long as I recognize, every day, what got me to 300 lbs., and what it takes to stay at a healthy weight, I can do this day in and day out, if I'm honest with myself.