What to say at work?

f4eva
on 7/28/13 8:52 am

I've only told a total of 4 people at work that I am having this surgery because I feel it is no one's business.  However, they will know I am having surgery because I have to take the time off, so what do I say?  I honestly don't know what to say.  Has anyone dealt with this?  Any suggestions?

CPA_Loser
on 7/28/13 9:01 am, edited 7/28/13 3:58 pm - WA
I am having the same kind of questions and thoughts about what I will say. I work in the corporate world where most people are not overweight and tend to have strong feelings about WLS. I feel like they will kind of know and talk behind my back if I don't tell them but they will judge me if I do. I have told no one yet since I dot even have a surgery date yet.
themexcellentone
on 7/28/13 9:06 am
VSG on 07/08/13 with

You are having surgery.  That's that.  They don't need to know anything beyond that if you don't want to tell them.  If you really want to put them off your trail, tell them it is female surgery.  People tend not to pry once you go there!

VSG by Nick Nicholson in 2013. Revised to DS 2/23/2023 by Chad Carlton.

claimmaster
on 7/28/13 9:10 am - OK
VSG on 07/05/13

I told them I was having elective surgery and left it at that.  When I got back to work, everyone wanted to know how my weight loss surgery went.  I don't have any idea how they found out, but no one was unpleasant about it and that's all I really cared about.

Jane

 Starting weight: 320       Goal weight: 145      Surgery Weight: 298      Current weight: 215         Check out my blog at www.thebariatricvegan.com

Weight loss month 1-22  2-13  3-12  4-16  5-4  6-0  7-7  8-6

   

    

pugmadkate
on 7/28/13 9:28 am

I like themexcellentone's idea!

 

Best of luck to you!

 

 

AmyB1012
on 7/28/13 10:19 am

i dunno if id actually lie about it. Id just leave it at surgery and it a very private personal surgery. :)

    

    
Tracy D.
on 7/28/13 10:26 am - Papillion, NE
VSG on 05/24/13

The only people who knew about my surgery at work was the woman in the HR department (FMLA and short-term disability) and my boss.   I took 6 days of vacation over the Memorial Day weekend and no one even questioned why I was gone...I was on "vacation".   I came back and everyone marveled over how well-rested and healthy I looked :-)  

 Tracy  5'3"     HW: 235  SW: 218  CW: 132    M1: -22  M2: -13  M3: -12  M4: -9  M5: -8   M6: -10   M7: -4

 Goal reached in 7 months and 1 week

 Lower Body Lift w/Dr. Barnthouse 7-8-15

   

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

    

slimpickins5280
on 7/28/13 11:12 am - CO

Tell them that you had a sex change operation because you wanted something new to play with.

VSG 10/18/11      If you don't like the road you're walking, start paving another one.-Dolly Parton





 


 

themexcellentone
on 7/28/13 11:22 am
VSG on 07/08/13 with

totally just did a spit take....LMAO

VSG by Nick Nicholson in 2013. Revised to DS 2/23/2023 by Chad Carlton.

linzeelee
on 7/28/13 11:16 am - Omaha, NE
VSG on 05/17/13

I told my boss I was having surgery when I requested my week off. I debated not even telling him, but just in case I needed longer than a week off, I wanted him to be aware. I told one other coworker, the one I am closest to, the one who sits right next to me. No one else has even noticed yet that I've lost weight.

You don't have to tell anyone you don't want to tell. It's personal info and you have no obligation to tell anyone you're having surgery. If you don't want them to know what kind of surgery it is, you could always say "it's personal."

Lindsay ~ 5'4" ~ HW (5/6/13): 280 ~ SW (5/17/13): 273 ~ CW: 140
Losses by month: pre-op: -8  M1: -18  M2: -12  M3: -13  M4: -9  M5: -10  M6: -12
  M7: -14  M8: -12  M9: -2  M10: -8  M11: -9  M12: -2  M13: -6  M14: -7

   

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