Be a little kinder

Librarian67
on 12/18/17 6:03 am
RNY on 02/28/17

Good morning WLS folks.

I just saw a news alert that someone jumped in front of a train here in DC. It makes my heart sad that there are people who are suffering so much in this holiday season.

I feel so blessed this year. I had RNY on February 28th and have regained health and strength and so much more.

I know that some of you out there in OH Land are suffering too. You have mentioned losing friends and loved ones and there are others who are struggling with adjusting to your WLS.

For those of you who are able, I encourage you to show a little extra kindness in this season. Reach out and be gentle with folks.

Also remember to be gentle and kind with yourself. WLS and the life that comes with it can be really hard. The holidays are full of food and temptations that make a healthy lifestyle difficult. Remember to be protein forward and to drink lots of fluids. Avoid alcohol because it isn't your friend. And remember that tomorrow is another day. Even if you slip and eat something that isn't on plan, you can start again. You have the tools to be healthy. You have your friends here on OH who know exactly what you are going through. Use your tools and you can get through this!

Wishing you all a peaceful season!

HW: 248+, SW (RNY: 2/28/17): 244, GW (10/17): 125; LW: 115; 45# regain (19-20); CW: 135.6; new goal: 135; Plastics: Ext mastopexy, Ext abdominoplasty-5/18/2018; diagnosed w/ gastroparesis 11/20.

azmichy
on 12/18/17 9:12 am
VSG on 10/24/17

Such a great sentiment. There are so many who are struggling.

Lap Band 09/17/2003 HW-276 SW-225 LW-167

Revision to VSG 10/24/17 HW-244 SW-217.8 CW-179.6

Pre-op:0~M1:17~M2: 6.6~M3: 7.8~M4: 6.7

CC C.
on 12/18/17 9:56 am

Beautifully said!

Sparklekitty, Science-Loving Derby Hag
on 12/18/17 12:38 pm
RNY on 08/05/19

If you need help, don't be afraid to reach out.

  • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1â?'800â?'273â?'TALK
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Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!

helferships
on 12/18/17 3:43 pm
RNY on 11/14/16

In Canada, the National Association for Suicide Prevention has a list of crisis centres by province at www.suicideprevention.ca/about-us/contact-us

nance1950
on 12/18/17 5:30 pm
RNY on 04/26/17

Beautifully said. Thank you. You're an inspiration. Nancy

Liz WantsHealthForAll
on 12/19/17 8:18 am - Cape Cod, MA
VSG on 03/28/16

Thank you for writing this. So needed! I wish you a wonderful and peaceful holiday season as well!

Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-123 CW: 120 (after losing 20 lb. regain)!

Librarian67
on 12/19/17 1:19 pm
RNY on 02/28/17

Liz, I know this is a hard time for you with memories recent and past. Hold on to the ones you love and make it a beautiful holiday!

Ladyblu
on 12/21/17 2:07 am - Jacksonville, FL
VSG on 09/29/17

Thank you for reminding us of this. And might I suggest that we carry at least a shadow of this with us throughout the year. You never know how a kind word or smile will touch someone.

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VSG with Dr. Wanchick - Sept 29 2017

Age 52 Height 5'2" HW 585 (2012) Initial Consult Weight 522 SW 460 (9/29/2017) CW 350 (4/5/2018) Next Goal 325 Starting BMI 95.5 Current BMI 64.0

Pre-Op: 62 M1: 36 M2: 20 M3: 15 M4: 19 M5: 10 M6: 10 M7: ?

diane S.
on 12/23/17 11:02 am

Such a good sentiment for this time of year and a good goal for the rest of your life. As they say "what goes around comes around". Kindness is not a four letter work. DS


      
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