Thanks for caring
I was noticing that alot of you have had the RNY, I am not sure what that is. I had the Duodenal Switch (DS) and I have a incision from just under my breast down pass the belly button. Lots of people were amazed at the length of it, including me. I know that the DS is for the morbid obese which I am. My BMI was 56 at the start.
So thank you for your concern, it helps. Have a great weekend
Love and Prayers
Sharon
Wishing your healing process goes without any issues that are not of the norm and that once the initial stages are behind you, that you will be feeling differently about things. The early recovery of a surgery of the kind you had is tough, most of us, I believe, had our surgeries laproscopically, which makes recovery a bit easier. The getting used to eating post WLS is an adventure for sure, you can and will find your way. Be patient with yourself and you can bring your feelings here, we will do what we can to help you through encouragement.
Hugs, Laureen
My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . . It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . . Laureen
"Success is a journey, not a destination." Ben Sweetland
We all go through a lot ... I have been very depressed the past couple of years, have gone through a hell of a lot. Weight-loss surgery is not the easy way out, so don't let anyone tell you that. You know it, I know it. It takes a lot of courage to do it ... you have the scar to prove it. So shed a few tears. That's OK. We're all here to listen.
Sharon,
I don't think the DS was around 6 years ago when I had my laparoscopic Roux-n-Y. My BMI was 66 and the entry on my surgeon's post that I read was "super morbdly obese". I THOUGHT "OBESE" sounded bad til I heard that referred to ME!
You do have a lot more healing to do than I did. I had 6 little one in*****isions and really did feel better the day after surgery than I did the day before.
I belong to TOPS also or did. I haven't been in a year or so as it seemed to no longer fulfill the need. Use this forum all you can both publicly and privately through PMs (personal messages.)
You might also put a "free" ad out somewhere and think about starting your own small support group. Even if it's just meet once a week for coffee, a walk, or at someone's home. Even if it's just you and one or two others. . . It's still support. You might put a sign up or ask your surgeon's office to spread the word to others in your area. I know they can't give out other's names to you but they could give your name with your permission. An official group would be great but if that's just not possible this would still be helpful and you would be helping someone else.
I found that I got a lot of support from those who were ahead of me by a year or so. I also latched on to a couple of women who were at about the same stage I was. That helped a tremendous amount to just share with each other.
By the time the end of the summer comes along you will be amazed at how far you have come. Start trying a few new things, just a bite or two at a time. Most things tasted so different to me. Things I used to love I no longer cared for. It took about 6 months to really get much of a taste back. Even sugarfree stuff tasty supersweet to me. I couldn't stand the smell of most meats cooking. Going from the attitude of "living to eat" to "eating to live" is a huge mind game and no easy accomplishment. I am still working on it every day.
Hope each day gets better for you! Look for those little wows. I know getting in the "200s" is a big one. Each 10 lb mark was a big accomplishment and made me feel better and better. Hugs!
Karen C
I had my RNY five years ago, open, with a huge incision from my breastbone to my naval as well. I am not familiar with the DS, but would encourage you to walk as much as you can, even if it is several short strolls a day. Walking helped me with my healing so much.
During our early post-op, we are doing rapid weight loss, and there is a huge release of hormones, because of the hormones that were stored in fat being released into our systems. That will contribute to your fluctuation of emotions. I also found myself dealing with getting used to my clothes being loose, and adjusting to watching TV commercials for food I will never be able to eat.
I hope you will post here often, and know that many of us depend on Obesity Help for support for a variety of reasons.
Hugs,
Trish
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