sob, rant, sad, UGH!

SO, why has all of a sudden my bff started saying snarky off the wall comments to me? She will say "woohoo 3 weeks and you get to start the new you, I on the other hand have to work it out in the gym and watch what I eat." I mean wth is that! Also, I made the decision that my job *laughable term* wasn't worth the hassle, less than 8 hrs a week all summer and less than $8/hr, well its all I can hear from her! My husband is in support of this, he wanted me to quit a long time ago, anyways, this is the comment from her about this..."well at least you have a husband who will support you fanatically, and love you no matter what size or shape you are" OK really...what in the hell does that have to do with the price of eggs in china? I really don't have close friends other than my husband, huh maybe this is why.....anyways...enough about my sucky day!

Sounds like she's jealous.

I agree with Kelly.
And really you have to watch what you eat and exercise too, you just have a little help with the surgery.  It isn't a cake walk.
I told a *friend* a week before my surgery that I was having it done and she told me that she didn't believe in the surgery because she thinks if you want something bad it will happen.  Like lose weight. Our kids were in the same class and she just gives me the nice nod when she sees me, nothing more.  I think she is mad because in the end I will be skinnier than her. 

Sarah

Umm.... I had my bypass at the end of May and I exercise 1 1/2 to 2 hours a day and count every calorie I put in my mouth (Since I don't dump, I could eat junk food all day long without getting sick, so I really have to watch what I eat!).  Your friend is probably jealous and is seriously misinformed about the gastric bypass surgery. 

Jealous, jealous, jealous.  Don't let her bring you down.  Sometimes you have to take a step back and re-evaluate your "friends".

 She is jealous -and I can see why! Enjoy all these good things you have going on :)

Definitely jealous...real friends may have a twinge of envy once in a while but ultimately she should be supportive of your life. Sounds like she's not the Bff you thought she was.

jealousy is a terrible thing!  remarks about your surgery/job/hubby........not good!!!  i would re-evaluate her "bff" status!!!

just sayin!

best wishes on your journey to a healthy you!!

Smell that smell? that is the scent of someone spouting total BULL**** and jealousy out their face. Tell her to shut her piehole or she can just quit being around you. At this point you do not need the crap. Youa re already going through enough and one less irritant around will make things easier.

Here's my take..a BFF is sort of like a husband but alot less trouble..and my dear hubby was trouble! His thinking was that I was gonna get all skinny and replace him cuz, he figured I could do better anyway, he was extremely insecure..so he was saying snarky things, treating me bad so that I would leave him...so that he didn't have to do the dirty work..

so...long story short, she might be trying to irritate you so that YOU drop her so that she doesn't have to hold the guilt of dumping YOU cuz you got thin..

I know it's a stretch but I've been dealing with psycho people and this is exactly how they think..

Either that or she's just a jealous *****either way you need to sit down with her and reassure her and/or find out what the heck is going on inside her brain..