The words I hear most often...
Sometimes it might be that they actually do notice but are afraid of being impolite so they don't ask if you've lost weight. But they hope you'll tell them about it if they ask about your appearance in some way.
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I rarely ever ask/talk about weight with women unless we are really close. I never ask if women are pregnant either. It could be that they are waiting for you to say something about the weight loss.
My neighbor asked me about weight loss the other day (I lost about 50lbs since we moved in) and mostly she was asking so that I would comment on her weight loss. I'm fine with that. People can be so funny.
My neighbor asked me about weight loss the other day (I lost about 50lbs since we moved in) and mostly she was asking so that I would comment on her weight loss. I'm fine with that. People can be so funny.
some people just don't really pay attention either. I found it funny that i saw a friend of my daughters mom at teachers conferences..now i am not out a lot and i don't have a lot of friends but i noticed she has lost a lot of weight so i mentioned it and she just gleamed she was so proud of her 70 lb loss..which is awesome but never ever even noticed my almost 60 lb. loss. I didn't expect her too but it was funny thinking about it and how unaware she is that i lost all that weight too.
One day at a school concert of my daughters another friend of mine came up to me and was all raving about how lucky i was..i thought it was about my weight loss but nope it was about my new job. lol but people look at me differently and i think they know something is up but don't know what. And one of my FB friends congratulated me last night on my weight loss but she sees some random posts on FB i am sure. lol She was the first to notice though in almost 3 months. ha!!
One day at a school concert of my daughters another friend of mine came up to me and was all raving about how lucky i was..i thought it was about my weight loss but nope it was about my new job. lol but people look at me differently and i think they know something is up but don't know what. And one of my FB friends congratulated me last night on my weight loss but she sees some random posts on FB i am sure. lol She was the first to notice though in almost 3 months. ha!!