Feeling frustrated
The thing that is motivating to me is reading other people successes! Especially when I see pictures. The transformations are so incredible, and I can always see in their faces who has been able to really integrate their new bodies into their emotions. It reminds me that although the weight loss can be rapid, the emotional work still needs to be done. I'm so glad I have a really good shrink who I've been with for awhile and will continue seeing post-op.
Barb
Think of it like this. I have a couple herniated discs in my back. I've tried going to physical therapy but my back still hurt, all the time. It would wake me up multiple times each night. Now, some people can recover from severe back pain by going to physical therapy. I had to have epidural steroid injections. I needed medical assistance. Do you think I'm a little bit of a failure? Would it have been better, or would I have been a better person, if I did not need medical treatment for my medical problem?
Obesity is a medical problem. Some people need medical help.
Perhaps the reason you see people on TV that were able to lose large amounts of weight without medical assistance like surgery is because it's so unusual. I mean, if it happened all the time, it wouldn't be newsworthy, right? So yeah, some people can do it. Most can't. So you're normal. That's not such a bad thing to be, although of course avoiding surgery would be nice if we could.
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
You made a good point about the people who are featured on TV. And the contestants on the Biggest Loser are at "the ranch" with trainers who encourage and monitor them all the time. Most of us can't afford to have that in real life, but for those who can make it work, I know it's helped many other people.
So, now, I'll get the help I need.
Mahalo nui loa! (Hawaiian for thank you very much)
Barb
My back feels better right now. Steroid injections. It's good to know when to seek professional help.
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
I am far from there yet but that is when I will consider myself a success, when I can say I have kept the weight off for at least 5 years.
WLS 10/28/2002 Revision 7/23/2010
High Weight (2002) 240 Revision Weight (2010) 220 Current Weight 115.
My two cents.... The Biggest Loser is a great show but it is really unrealistic. These people work out up to 8 hrs a day and are in a very controlled environment. They have a few that have won and gained back all their weight plus some. We've all lost the weight and then gained it back and 10 of its friends (pounds). With my health issues I can lose 5 pounds in a week and then gain 10 the next doing the same thing. Yay, hormones and insulin resistance! I really feel that obesity is a genetic trait. So I take those shows with a grain of salt. If being cut open, having my inside played with and having to follow a strict diet the rest of my life is the easy way out, Id hate to see the hard way.
So i go day to day just knowing that i tried the best i could BEFORE surgery and couldn't lose the weight and needed the tool. If not for this surgery and MY power using the tool i would be very heavy for the rest of my life or until sickness of some sort hit to help me lose the weight.
I so appreciate the support!
Aloha,
Barb