Down and out after 1 year!
March 17th will be my one year anniversary. My emotions are CRAZY! My highest weight was 318lbs. When I started this process I weighed 294lbs. On the day of surgery I was 265lbs. Today I am 175lbs. YES! I'm happy about it. However... My surgeon told me around my 3 month mark that I could easily get to about 135lbs. That's 40lbs away. I am not seeing that in my future and it's getting me down. Not to mention... my skin. My thighs, my tummy, my butt, my arms and my boobs... my poor boobs!!! One minute I'm feeling great and the next I'm crying. I hate my new body. Somedays I look at myself and see a whole new person and some days I look and see the same fat person I used to be. I'm on antideppressants. I exercise. I take all my vitamins. I've met with a psychiatrist. I'm just a hot mess most days.
Has anyone else gone thru this same thing???? I'm emotionally and psyically ugly and in need of advice. HELP!!!!
~Kelly
My legs are terrible, stomach bad, bat wing arms and there is nothing left of my poor boobs. I spend 10 minutes a day trying to pack what is left of them into my cleaveage inducing bra. Those parts make me sad. But then when I look back to being 320, that is when I was really SAD.
I am not in a depressed state, but I will get bummed feeling sometimes. Keep working with your medical staff.
The exterior stuff can be fixed with surgery. The brain stuff can't.
Sarah
I'm trying to focus on being fit instead of the scale and my clothes size. I ran 4.3 miles this morning before work. Never could have done that before and guess what! There really aren't that many "normal" or skinny people who can do that either.
I'm sorry you're having troubles now. What does your surgeon say about getting plastics? Are there local support groups?
I think we try to avoid remembering what we looked like before surgery naked....beleive me, not so good. Now we have saggy everything but we can breath, our hearts are back to normal, we can sleep without stopping breathing, we can go for a walk without back - leg - everything pain. We fit in a regular bathroom stall, we fit in a booth in the restaurant, I can move by other chairs in a restaurant without my butt or stomach hitting people in the head...there are so many advantages over just appearance. Maybe just take 10 minutes to write down 10 things that are better now.