Splenda?
My emotions are still a little out of whack.... Yesterday I was crying bc I didn't want to go to a Super Bowl party and be around food and beer and my finance wasn't too understanding until the tears started flowing.... I'm not ready to sit there with everyone in that type of setting yet.... It's also hard bc everyone thinks I just had my gallbladder out so at least one of the guys there yesterday is a dr. I didn't really want to worry about him asking anything either since I still have my gallbladder. Ughh
At less than a month post op the coffee would have been a laxative for me! But, other than that, I use Miralax in one of my drinks every day to keep things moving. However if you are at critical mass then you might want to go the Dulcolax suppository route. That's what I had to do early out when things stopped moving. There are certainly other things you could try, though.
Oh, and if Splenda is wrong, I don't wanna be right. I've tried stevia in my coffee and didn't care for it. It's all about taste preference and how you feel about artificial sweeteners, really.