One week away from surgery

Well we made it this far. Surgery is set for 11/25 and my wife told me today that she may be having second thoughts about surgery. She has asked me to not let her back out . Any suggestions ?

She needs to be convinced this is what SHE wants to do.  As her support, you need to remind her of all the reasons that she has given you of why she wants to do this.  Ask her why she wants to do this and then say it back to her and say you support her 100%.  Perhaps she is looking for affirmation of your support?   This is a HUGE decision and she MUST be sure this is what SHE wants to do. 

Its not easy by any means and she must be mentally prepared to take on the challenges she will face. 

Good luck!