Personal Rant - Kind of long

LOL good for you knolmom.  A person can only be patient for so long...geez!

I am glad things seem to be going well for you as a post op - 

It's not uncommon to have hormone dumping from rapid fat loss as you lose. Could this be what is going on and be why you are so edgy? Part of the catch is recognizing when it's happening. When I went through it, I realized I wasn't fit for human company and sent myself to time out - my room, door closed, watching shows on my ipad.

It took me a number of years into marriage to finally realize once and for all that we all have our own views of what a nice Christmas looks like, and we bring this with us from childhood. The reason I bring this up is that if the hormone dumping is making you feel it's all about you (singular) and he isn't paying proper attention, take a step back and realize that it's actually all about you (plural). Give yourself permission to do your own thing and let him do his.

Laurie

Yes, it probably is some hormone dumping. My emotions are up and down so that is most likely the culprit. I am trying to look at the big picture and for the most part, everything always works out. There have been opposite times where he wants to heap attention on me and I just want to be alone. It will all even out one of these days!

Thanks

Hang in there. It won't last forever!