Hello Barbara - <b>Congratulations, </b>your special day is almost here! I suspect you are experiencing a range of emotions right now. My second chance was almost 9 months ago, I've lost 150lbs - only 50 more to goal!!! The week before my surgery I was on a natural high, almost a euphoric state of mind. I couldn't believe I was getting that "second" chance ...to LIVE life again. I wish you all the success and happiness that comes with being healthier and thinner. Sure, there can be a few challenges along the way, but no worse then sitting on the sidelines - confined by our overweight shells. You're about to break free, enjoy and embrace all the wonderful "moments" that come with this journey. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers for a successful and uneventful surgery. <i>"To grow, you must be willing to let your present and future be totally <u>unlike</u> your past. Your history is not your destiny."</i> .....Hugs and Smiles : )