Judy Hardy
The truth is that I've neglected myself for years. I've always helped everyone, because I'm a nurturer by nature and i love that. I finally came to the realization that I have to change my life when my grandmother passed. It just took so much out of me. I started eating uncontrollably because of the pain. Then I remembered something my grandmother had told me and it hurt like hell. She said Judy how much bigger are you going to get? My response was I don't know Mama. The truth is that it took her telling me that for me to realize that I truly needed to get my life in order and lose some weight. I was very scared of the whole idea. Change sometimes can be very scary. After a year after my Mama's death I finally started to see that she was right. I was getting to big. I already knew that , But I decided to do nothing about it until now. I never thought I could change my eating habits, but I'm doing it and I'm so thankful. Never take life for granted because it is so precious. Make the most of each day and everything else will take care of itself.
I have the most caring and loving man in my life and I would love to be his wife. He is so very supportive of me doing the surgery. I'm a Little nervous, but it's something that has to be done.Today is the start of a new life for me. I hope and pray that everything will turn out the way I want it.
I've always been heavy every since elementary school. Changing my life would be good for me. I've been faced with so much discrimination it ain't funny. Whether it's at school, work, restaurants, Job interviews, rejection from males and just people being plain old ignorant. I can't stand it when someone just stands there and look at you like your crazy or something. As long as I have breath in me, I'm not going to let anyone stop me from being me.
