onyxboo
Hmmmmm, where to start.
Aug 18, 2014
I'm sure I have the typical overweight story. I have been overweight my entire life. A ten pound baby (sorry mom) with 2 chins already mind you , to an overweight child, and into a morbidly obese adult. I hate those two words, morbidly obese. Ugh!! Growing up I was fed whatever I wanted whenever I wanted it. And unfortunately as an adult that stuck with me. That's why I am now 282 pounds. Of course there are other reasons why I can't shed the weight but that's what I'll pay a shrink for Growing up I never thought of myself as particularly ugly, just "normal" looking. The heavier I got the more unhappy I got, and now have the lowest self esteem of probably anyone I have ever met. Oh the days when I would go out with friends and boyfriends and have a good time. Even being overweight, I still had quite a few boyfriends. Now, however, I am a hermit. Not completely of course, I do go to work. Besides that though, nothing. I go home and I stay home. I just moved back to my home state last year and can honestly say I have gone out once in the last 13 months. Of course I had no fun what-so-ever because I was too busy wondering at what everyone was probably thinking, why I even bothered to go to a bar. When in reality they probably weren't paying any attention to me at all. Hmmmm, not that that statement sounds any better to me Anyhow, I have tried every diet imaginable, lost some to only gain them back plus some more. I hit the point of no return when I got on the scale and it said 293 pounds. I thought "holy shit, I am 7 pounds away from being 300 pounds". This is not working for me anymore. So I started the process of WLS only to chicken out when my Dr told me that it doesn't work for everyone. And I have to be comfortable with the possibility of only losing 15 pounds. That invasive of a surgery to only lose 15 pounds, I don't think so. So I stopped the process. After moving home and getting a job did I decide to restart. A co-worker of mine was going through the process and I found out from her that our insurance will cover it, minus my co-pay of course. That was it for me, I'm off and running straight to the operating table. I at first thought about doing the sleeve, but after talking to a friend who had the RNY I changed my mind. Statistically speaking, I have a better chance of losing more weight with RNY than with the sleeve from everything I've read. So I'm going for it. My surgery is set for 3 days from now and I am excited and nervous as hell. I have failed at every diet I have ever done, and do not want to fail at this. I have changed my mindset to "this is not another diet, this is a lifestyle change". And let's face it, my lifestyle was pretty boring, very sad, and very emotional. So another lifestyle is what I need. I will start therapy after surgery to work through all my low self-esteem issues as well as the why's to why I kept myself heavy all these years. Peace out, and see you all on the losers bench. The one time I don't mind being called a loser.