Talked to my husband

Aug 22, 2010

Well, I talked to my hubby today about how I've been feeling about myself and my body and my health and I think he gets it.  He said I should talk to the doctor, but again brought up using insurance to pay for it.  I decided that I would explain to him why I didn't want the RNY or LapBand and I think he gets that too.  Yay!!  He didn't want to move forward without praying about it (which I didn't tell him I've been already doing and feel a very calm feeling about having this done).  Slowly moving towards letting him know I've already made steps toward surgery on 10/18/10 (for example: sent for passport, got financing set up and sent deposit). 

I need to do this for me, and as much as I want my husband to be on the same page as I am, I don't know if I will be able to have the surgery in my time frame if I wait for him to get to where I'm at.  I love this man with all of my heart, but he doesn't feel what I feel.  You know what I mean????

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