My mom

Jan 09, 2009

 My mom passed away on December 26, 2008. She was my biggest advocate. She was the one in my family that knew the truth about my weightloss. Now she is gone and I miss her so much. I took her to the hospital on the 24th thinking she would be fine after a little rest and some fluids. Now I'm devastated and really miss her. She was the very best mom. I found out from my dad's sitter (he's bedridden) that my sisters-in-laws had rummaged through her purse even before she died. I feel so violated and feel my mother would feel so also. They never came to check on her when she was living, but the moment she was sick and then dead they moved in for the rape. They are married to my 2 older brothers. Of course my brothers were just as guilty. They didn't come to check on my parents when my mom was still alive, and yes they live close. It was left up to me and my younger brother to do everything. The moment my mom died, they started clearing out stuff and taking what they wanted. My mother's clothing was all packed up before she was even buried. They got my dad to give his power of attorney to the 2 of them and have raped and pillaged everything. Of course the oldest professes to not want anything (yeah right). He is also the very best of Christians, but never lifted a finger to help my mom or dad. I don't want my dad's or mom's stuff, but it is just the principle of the whole thing. My mom would have much rather have been helped while she was living than raped when she died.  I know I did all I could do for my mom before she died so I can live with my conscience. I told my brother that is 2 years older than me the same thing and he tells me he was at their house every 2 weeks. I had to call him a liar because I was there every weekend and at least once during the week and I never ran into him and my mother told me she had not seen him in weeks. I am so disappointed in my brothers for their actions and those of their wives.

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Jacksonville, AL
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12/13/2007
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