5 Days Out- I made it
on 12/14/13 1:48 pm
Staples make me think you had open, not lap. I had staples with several orthopedic surgeries and I prefer them to stitches most of the time. Removal was easy, IMO and yiu hear the 'snip' but i ne er felt anything. A family member who had 2 cesarean births, one with staples and one with stitches said it was not a big deal when she had her stitches out. So hopefully you will have a similar experience to the two of us and staples won't be a big deal.
I was never as swollen as what you are describing so I cannot comment on that, but when is your post op with your surgeon? I would imagine they divide give you some dates fir swelling reduction and staples out during that visit.
Sorry your post op care was not what you expected! Here us to things only getting better from here!!
HW333--SW 289--GW of 160 5' 11" woman. I only know the way I know & when you ask for input/advice, you'll get the way I've been successful through my surgeon & nutritionist. Please consult your surgeon & nutritionist for how to do it their way. Biggest regret? Not doing this 10 years ago! Every day is better than the day before...and it was a pretty great day!
I was in your shoes last week ago I also had the same thing happen to me and I did have a crying moment but I straighten that nurse out quick and had no future problem. My surgery was that Friday morning my swallow test was Saturday morning early I pass with flying colors I had the x-tray doctor to write the result down and call it in . I explain to him I was extremely thirsty and wouldn't be able to drink unless he notify the nurse . This crazy nurse still refuse me ice chips or any thing to drink. I instructed my grown son to get me ice chip and a little sip of water immediately in front of her face. I then told her I was going to report her to Dr.A and she needs to say nothing to me again ,she got her s**t together quick she starting bring crystal light coffee ,etc. I have staples and glue over the wounds as well my staples are due to come out Tuesday. Most of the swelling has gone down and the pain is much better ,very itchy on wound site now. Will let you know Tuesday if the staples will be painful but I doubt it. How many small wounds do you have on your stomach ? I have 6
Surgery: RNY on 12/18/2013 with Jay M. Snow, MD "Don't mistake my kindness for weakness." - Robert Herjavec, quoting Al Capone
taking the staples out doesn't hurt. They use a device that cuts them in half, in the middle, and then each side just slides right out. When my sister had a C-section, she was scared of having the staples removed and she closed her eyes and the nurse took them all out, really quick and easy. With her eyes still closed, my sister said, "When are you going to start taking them out?" She hadn't felt it at all. I once had to have staples in my arm and I took them out at home myself (I'm not suggesting you do that), it was that easy and didn't hurt at all.
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I am so sorry you had a horrible nursing staff post surgery, that just sucks!!! I had swelling but dose not sound like as much as you have, it did take mine about 4 weeks to go down, walking really helped me feel better even though I was really sore!! The pain post surgery (laparoscopic) was more than I anticipated but I also had a Haital hernia repair. At my 2 weeks post op a lot, I had only lost 2 lbs and was discouraged but at my 4 weeks post op appt, I had lost 18 lbs and now at 5.5 weeks out I have lost 5 more lbs, so the total lost since surgery (nov.7th) is 25lbs.
The weight will come off, don't panic (like I did :-) ). It may be slow for a while, but it will happen. Prayers going up for you!!