My friend with the big mouth
And now that they know I have a function coming up in a few weeks and I know they're going to ask me a million questions and when my back is turned I'll be judged for what I did. I don't know what to do or what to say to people when they ask me stupid questions or decide what I can and cannot eat. I wish people would just leave me alone sometimes.
I don't expect any responses from anyone but thanks for letting me vent.
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Let me just say this......
Don't let all that outside crap effect you!
Concentrate on the task at hand.
Don't let anybody or anything get in your way.
This is your chance to eliminate all those concerns.
How can you be criticized for taking steps to better yourself ?
Not your problem....It's there problem or jealousy.
Do your thing......Make it work !
frisco
** Here is a comeback I had prepared ready for anyone who was gonna give me any crap. I never had to use it cause everyone was supportive. I chose to be open about my WLS.
"I can lose the weight......how are you going to fix stupid?"
SW 338lbs. GW 175lbs. Goal in 11 months. CW 148lbs. WL 190lbs.
" To eat is a necessity, but to eat intelligently is an art "
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I got some good advice from people on here:
Remember, you are a lady and gravitate towards those who are kind and positive and dont even engage those who are negative, it feeds their ego!!
Also, no one knows the ins and outs of our eating plan so they can go pound sand. My mom is always like "you dont eat enough!" ummm...i had surgery so i dont eat like a pig any more, no one said anything when i filled my plate 3 times!
HW: 258lbs SW: 240 CW: 140 I am 5 foot 7 and 30 years old
VSG 12/21/10 Plastics: Tummy tuck, breast lift, and augmentation 11/3/11
Soon to be veterinarian!! xoxo
I remember when I was sick with heart problems and lost over 100 lbs. I was down to like 149. when i got home from the hospital i could fit a size 8. i was so happy I was well and very skinny. People around me did not seem to be happy for me. I was told you look sick skinny, you look better big. You just don't look right like this. I felt so bad that I uncunciouly gained all of the weight back. Also when I had lost the weight I had noticed that every female in my life was dieting. WTH. Could it be that I was the fat one and nonthing was going to change that for them.
People are mean and they will say things. And your right nobody ever said you are unhealthy you need to loose weight, lets excercise togetere, because they were all fine with me being the fat one and not them.
Guess what Karma has a sense of humor!
He is now sporting a big belly, a double chin, and a big old butt of his own! Even one of his patients told him that he got really fat! I heard it! I just walked away.
I have 4 more weeks before I return to work. When I go back to work I just want to look amazing!
I know that he probably won't say anything but I know that he will notice. Maybe he can wear my old lead because I hope that mine won't fit when I return to work.
As far as being judged for what you did, try not to let that bother you. Haters judge! Remember who you are doing this for. Yourself. You are taking steps to improve yourself and your health and your overall sense of well being! Hold your head up high! Stand tall and be proud! You are doing this and you deserve to be successful! Amaze everyone!!!
Go get em!
Holly