Frustrated by my pics and mirror
I look at my pics and I dont see any change even though the scales say I have lost a bunch of weight and I am wearing 2xl instead of 5xl. To me it looks like I am in reducing in scale, so that I look exactly the same at 308 lbs as I do at 420- like a bonsai version of myself.
It has to be psychological, like an anorexic seeing imaginary fat on her skeletal frame. To see I pulled out my levi jacket from last year and I can wrap it one and ahalf times around me now. Last year I could even button it-so when does our eyes catch up with our new appearances?
I tried to put pics on here but they would not post so just look at my profile photos if your curious.
JB
I will periodically try on my "fat clothes" just to amaze myself. I can fit both legs into one leg of my old suits and I just stare at myself for a while and do some healthy, postive self talk :)
I think when we start at a higher weight/BMI, we don't see such astonishing results after 80lbs or so (hell I didn't even lose a clothing size until maybe 50-55 lbs lost originally). But, you will see it soon (but trust me, you can definitely see the difference in your pics now).
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HW 420/ SW 335 /CW 200 85 lbs lost pre-op / 135 post op
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jb:
I think sometimes the reason we got so heavy was because we never saw ourselves as others see us. You're probably not the best judge of how you look and you're probably not very objective. Have other people commented on your weight loss? You mentioned your clothes are much bigger. Just have faith that your weight loss is properly reflected in the mirror and it's your mind that is skewing the reflection! Keep up the great work!
curleeqgirl
I'm in therapy and am trying to temper my expectations of what my mental "after" picture will look like. I may not match the picture in my head until after plastics, and I'm working to come to terms with that. It's a struggle, and I totally empathize with you.
High weight: 276
Lowest weight: 155.2
Currently : 159-164
Couch potato to runner in 18 months!
Edited to add: I just looked at your pics, and dude, you look fantastic!!! I can see major changes in your face, chest and abdomen!! Try not to be so hard on youself! : )
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HW: 270 SW: 234.4 CW: 135.0 1stGW:149 (GOAL MET)afreshstart-hreneeh.blogspot.com/
1st 5k: 5/12/12 44:55 PR 4miles: 12/31/2012 35:49
1. Someone who loses 80lbs of their 400lb+ frame isnt going to see as much of a difference as someone who for example is 300lbs and loses 80lbs, its not as large a percent.
2. It seems there comes a point where yes, you are lighter, smaller, wearing smaller sizes but its not as dramatic then BAM it seems to happen over night where the weight loss really starts to show..for me the first 65-80lbs werent as big of a difference as the last 20-30..
3. Body dysmorphic disorder is common for those of us losing weight, still seeing ourselves at a certain size. Like you mentioned it almost like it takes a while for our brains to catch up...i still find myself grabbing clothes several sizes too big or walking into a room thinking people are staring because im so heavy..
what a crazy ride!
HW: 258lbs SW: 240 CW: 140 I am 5 foot 7 and 30 years old
VSG 12/21/10 Plastics: Tummy tuck, breast lift, and augmentation 11/3/11
Soon to be veterinarian!! xoxo
Just remember that we never see our progress the way others do because we see ourselves every day!