Demanding More......

Oct 24, 2012

Today, I say I deserve better.

As part of the post op process, I like many others have gotten this physically attractive body and as a result, I’ve gotten a lot of attention from all kinds of individuals of the opposite sex. I enjoy the attention and I have gone out on some dates.

Then, I finally opened myself up to someone. I realized that in this area of my life I had not demanded better in the past or even at this point. I had not set standards and expectations for the opposite sex. If there are no standards, then a person will do whatever he/ she thinks they can to you. A relationship should be mutually beneficial and both persons should feel as if their needs are getting met. If you have never decided what is important to you or communicated your needs to your partner, then you can’t have the relationship that you want and you can't provide them with the relationship that they want. (Note:  It is not what others feel is important to you.  It is about what is important to you and if that person meets your needs.)

So…..today…..I say I demand better.   Today, I am working to define what is important to me and what I want out of a relationship.  And, based on the attention, I know their is surely available mates out there.

Thank you pal for assisting me in this process! (Jerry Graise in Missouri at Facebook.com.  He has lot of friends.  Feel free to contact him.)

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