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When i go out i order what i want but eat for my pouch. If l ordered something with pasta, i would make sure it had protein on it and mainly eat the protein off of it. I would stay away from the bread and enjoy some soup as well. i have gotten so much better at eating in social situations. I look as if I am eating like everyone else. But i really focus on the atmosphere and conversation and i just pick, pick, pick at my food while everyone else is shoveling it in. 90% of what I order ends up in a to go box.
Sonya your advice sounds very sound, but my problem when going out is I started to "shovel" it in also. If I am talking and interacting with others I tend to forget to chew chew chew my food. I end up cleaning my plate and not even remember what the food tastes like. Does anyone else have this problem??
It takes practice. I make a concerted effort to feel my pouch in those situations. i have become adept at pacing myself and looking at what started out on my plate vs what is left. Since i am eating along with everyone else, i don't feel deprived. lf I could not handle it without losing my mind, i definitely wouldn't try. You have to know your own triggers. Rich foods tend to satisfy me very quickly now. So a few bites stretched over an hour at the table with company and conversation is enough for me. Yet, I could eat my weight in apple slices or oranges and things like that if I am not careful.